My husband and I were both spanked as children -- it was the principal method of discipline used by our parents -- and I never really thought about it until we had a child of our own. If they are more active in the child's life than the biological parent, they are the parent. My SIL husband did that, he didn't encourage or love the kids and was only wanting to dish out punishment. He is enjoying his days. When a child does something wrong, in our culture it is okay to spank a child if need be so. Because if i don't she will not learn, DH thinks nothing of it he says i can be too hard on her sometimes but in the end he knows it will benefit her because i still make her feel loved just as much. Likely you'll be able to take this check, and you should do so in the spirit of its being a bonus for services already rendered, not a bribe to keep you from looking for another job.
Marguerite Kelly - When Dad Won't Refrain From Spanking, Son's Safety Must Come First
When Dad Won't Refrain From Spanking, Son's Safety Must Come First
With my older sister present and she has seen me give him an enema. I belittled my wife big time till she was in tears. Obviously a little too long since I've given him or you, if talking to me " And she has said to her Mother, I needed to take him in hand the other week" I've also heard my Mother in Law say to her once, "has he needed a beating recently or is he behaving himself? That was the start of my much needed spanking by my 22 year old bottom. A few days later I was again over the table and her mother came in.
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But my husband has never been able to say anything to his parents, even when he knew , I was not at any fault. Check out Dear Prudence's book recommendations in the Slate Store. I think it's okay to spank here and there not everyday and use it as a way of everyday punishment by any means but my son had two theripist, we have used charts, taking away stuff, and hasn't been diagnosed with any disorder I think he is just spoiled to much and he thinks he can do and say what he wants and be disrespectful to anyone and I am not going to have that in my house. I was raised by a step-father, and I am a teacher. We are all in our 30's all own houses, have kids, great careers and are more loving than most But the problem is he gets very mad at me if I spank his son. Somehow, your husband must learn to discipline his son in a more respectful way because he will always be in the boy's life, even if you divorce.