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However, there is a certain way to do it if you want it to feel as awesome as possible and I know you do :. When you feel it start to pop, STOP. Most guys do. You can experiment with speed, strokes, positions, hands, toys, and more during a solo session.
See how far you can get by creating a scene in your head instead. But did you know that gyrating and thrusting can help increase the intensity and lead to more pleasure? Stop and let your body regress a bit. You know your body best, so think about what kind of movement you have and can explore, and then try to add it in when you're masturbating. Try a hands-free masturbation toy.
Instead of trying to quickly reach the goal, play around with the whole neighbourhood: massage your balls, notice how it feels stretch the skin under the balls softly move your fingers barely touching the hairs on the balls caress your thighs explore your perineum area between anus and balls and notice the sensations it gives you. Some toys are ridged, and others have bumps, but all will provide a novel sensation. You know how after active stroking and not cumming sometimes balls hurt? Now that we have all the necessary items, lets get to the process of making it. Self-care is often seen as shameful, embarrassing, or unimportant in our social-obsessed culture. To maximize pleasure, use water-based lube.